Like dating, however, there are ways to participate in the process without getting completely heartbroken or frustrated. From my experience the following points may help:
· Don’t put all your eggs in the buy/sell basket. Keep operating your business and innovating.
· Know what your hard stops, or non-negotiables are, and realize that the deal will end if these are reached. Only designate these as non-negotiables if you are willing to walk away.
· Communicate with your advisors constantly. Feel free to vent to us about your frustration – but try not to make it personal unless it really, truly, is deserved.
· Hire people who have participated in deals before.
· Don’t give yourself artificial deadlines. If you want to take a day off to go see your kid’s swim meet, do it. The deal will be there when you get back.
· If the deal falls through, take time to deconstruct what happened, what you can learn, and try to reuse any documents that were created in the process.
